Expectations of a Political Leader

President Obama’s pick for Surgeon General is a Doctor from Alabama, Regina Benjamin. Sounds innocuous enough, but the controversy surrounding her recently is the fact that she is fairly overweight. By fairly I mean obviously. Critics have been slamming the would-be Surgeon General pick because of her weight, saying that she is unfit to tell Americans how to take care of themselves if she can’t take care of herself. Leaders, for years now, have been calling obesity in America a serious problem.

About 1980, the health and physical fitness of Americans began a downward spiral, as the rates of overweight and obesity began to climb. The nation now faces a growing public health epidemic, one that threat­ens the well-being of future generations. As the nation has become more urbanized, motorized, and screen-centered, an increasing number of peo­ple lead sedentary lives, and the rates of overweight and obesity continue to soar. The United States has the highest prevalence of obesity in the world. (The President’s Council on Physical Fitness and Sports)

Those who are backing Dr. Benjamin for Surgeon General (I can’t find the article. I will post it when I find it) are saying that, because of her weight issue, she is in a better position to give advice. She can tell people about the dangers of being overweight because she struggles with it herself. Now, don’t get me wrong, but isn’t that like saying the Drug-Czar should be a heroin-addicted, drug-addict, because he understands drugs. Or like saying the local police chief should be a convicted serial-killer because he understands the criminal mind. Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t want to go to a marriage counselor who has been married three times.

Obviously there are many pressing health issues in America besides obesity and she may be a perfect choice for them all, but don’t give me this crap about her being in a better position because of her weight (I don’t know where she stands on any issues so this isn’t an endorsement). Just admit you like her as Surgeon General despite it, not because of it, and I’ll respect your opinion much more.

So What

Now, what does this have to do with expectations of political leaders?

I remember in elementary school, being given some kind of President’s Physical Fitness Award –I don’t remember the exact title. But during P.E. we had certain things we had to do –pull-ups, sit-ups, etc..— in order to get this award. And it would have been weird to me for the President to ask all of us kids to be active if he wasn’t. Now, I was young and don’t remember if President Reagan was a very active man, but at his age he must have been in order to do the job of President.

I also don’t know whether the first President Bush was very active or not. But I do remember when Clinton jogged to McDonalds, and the infamous CigarGate, so I don’t think Clinton was all that health conscious. The second President Bush was very active and took his health extremely serious. To my knowledge, he didn’t drink or smoke and was either riding a bike or running every chance he got. Now with Obama as President I don’t know what his stance or views will be towards a healthy lifestyle. I know he smokes and drinks, now how much, who knows, but that is different than our last president. He and his family look to be in good shape, so we’ll see.

I say all of that to ask this: What do we expect out of our leaders? Do we expect them to be good role models? And then, what is a good role model? What do we want or not want them to do? Do we care whether or not the president or surgeon general or governor are obese or an alcoholic? Do we want our leaders to be monogamous? Do we care if he/she has a fling on the side as long as they are good at their job?

Do we treat our political leaders differently than we do our employees or co-workers? What if the top salesman in a large company was obese, do you think he would be fired? Of course not. How about if he was cheating on his wife? Nope, the company would care less as long as he is producing great results.

So, why do we expect so much of our leaders in office? And should we? Do the moral and “life” choices leaders make, give an indication of what kind of person they are?

I’m not going to reveal my opinion just yet…I want to hear from you. I’ll post again soon and finish this conversation.

royb

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Perspective

I read this on the wall at Jimmy Johns in Columbia, SC and thought it was worth blogging about. Read it and comment.

 

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How Much is Enough?

The American investment banker was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large fin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them.

The Mexican replied, only a little while.

The American then asked why didn’t he stay out longer and catch more fish?

The Mexican said he had enough to support his family’s immediate needs.

The American then asked, “but what do you do with the rest of your time?”

The Mexican fisherman said, “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siesta with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine and play guitar with my amigos, I have a full and busy life.”

The American scoffed, “ I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat, and with the proceeds from the bigger boat you could buy several boats. Eventually, you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually NYC where you will run your expanding enterprise.

The Mexican fisherman asked, “But, how long will this all take?”

To which the American replied, “15-20 years.”

“But what then?”

The American laughed and said the best part. “When the time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich, you would make millions.”

“Millions?” asked the fisherman, “Then what?”

The American said, “Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evening, sip wine and play guitar with your amigos!”

Author Unknown

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Book Review: Holy Roller by Julie Lyons

clip_image002Holy Roller, by Julie Lyons, was a fantastic book. I didn’t know what to expect when I opened the book, but it was clear from the start, that this book was special. Having grown up in Pentecostal circles, this book hit right at home.

Throughout Holy Roller, I kept thinking this must be some kind of fiction. I was waiting for the punch line. But, luckily, this was a true “I call it as I see it” story from a writer sharing from her heart. The way the book is told from a personal experience, as opposed to just writing about something she’s never been through, kept me wanting to read more. She bares her soul throughout the book, even the dirty little secrets that she hoped, at the time, no one would ever find out.

The book chronicles her relationship with Christ, her job, her family, her church and her marriage. She holds nothing back, that I could tell, and gives us a bird’s-eye-view of how she dealt with each.

I highly recommend the book to everyone. This book is about Missions, loving people who most people won’t, sticking with a church even though it is hard, race relations, dealing with inner conflict, finding out where God wants you, and most of all, watching as God shows himself faithful in every situation, even though it may not be obvious at the time.

I recommend you buy this book and read it. You can buy it at Random House.

Summary:

Julie Lyons was working as a crime reporter when she followed a hunch into the South Dallas ghetto. She wasn’t hunting drug dealers, but drug addicts who had been supernaturally healed of their addictions. Was there a church in the most violent part of the city that prayed for addicts and got results?
            At The Body of Christ Assembly, a rundown church on an out-of-the-way street, Lyons found the story she was looking for. The minister welcomed criminals, prostitutes, and street people–anyone who needed God. He prayed for the sick, the addicted, and the demon-possessed, and people were supernaturally healed.
            Lyons’s story landed on the front page of the Dallas Times Herald. But she got much more than just a great story, she found an unlikely spiritual home. Though the parishioners at The Body of Christ Assembly are black and Pentecostal, and Lyons is white and from a traditional church background, she embraced their spirituality–that of “the Holy Ghost and fire.”
It’s all here in Holy Roller–the stories of people desperate for God’s help. And the actions of a God who doesn’t forget the people who need His power.

Biography:

Julie Lyons is an award-winning writer, editor and investigative reporter who for more than 11 years served as editor-in-chief of the Dallas Observer, an alternative weekly newspaper owned by Village Voice Media. She holds a master’s degree in journalism from Northwestern University and a B.A. in English from Seattle Pacific University. She and her husband, Larry Lyons Jr., live in Dallas with their son.

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Book Reviews: “Under the Distant Sky” and “A Gathering of Finches”

image Under the Distant Sky by Al & Joana Lacy

This was a “God-fearing” book, full of various circumstances in which the Copper family truly trusted the Lord in almost everything they did. They demonstrated the true meaning of “loving thy neighbor as thyself”, as they left their home town, joined a wagon train, and traveled westward.

Although it was a simple story, there was enough intrigue to keep you interested to the end. It’s a good book for a church or a family library.

Summary:

In the years following the Civil War, Hannah and Solomon Cooper decide to seek out a new life on the frontier. In the dangerous journey that follows, however, tragedy strikes. By all reasonable expectations they should return home. Yet to the surprise of everyone in the wagon train — and despite great opposition — Hannah presses onward, displaying grit, courage, and a faith deep enough to sustain her family through life’s greatest trials.

You can buy it at Random House.

image A Gathering of Finches by Jane Kirkpatrick

This is a story about a young lady who doesn’t really know who she is, doesn’t like who she is, but does almost nothing to make a change in her life. Though very pretty and gifted, she has a hard time finding ways to give of herself.

Follow this young lady as she discovers that, though you may have it all materially, that doesn’t mean you are content or happy. In the end, does she make peace with God, or is it a life wasted?

Summary:

Based on historical characters and events, A Gathering of Finches tells the story of a turn-of-the-century Oregon coastal couple and the consequences of their choices, as seen through the eyes of the wife, her sister, and her Indian maid. Along the way, the reader will discover reasons to trust that money and possessions can’t buy happiness or forgiveness, nor permit us to escape the consequences of our choices. The story emphasizes the message that real meaning is found in the relationships we nurture and in living our lives in obedience to God

You can buy it at Random House.

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Book Review: The Vanishing Sculptor by Donita K. Paul

clip_image002I just want to start this out by saying that this book, The Vanishing Sculptor by Donita K. Paul, was great. I had no idea what to expect. I’d never heard of the DragonKeeper Chronicles, but that didn’t matter. From the very beginning, this book was a treat; and one that I looked forward to reading.

To say that it was an easy read, would be a disservice. The Vanishing Sculptor had some of the deepest character and scene development I’ve ever read. To be honest, it reminded me of an epic, like The Lord of the Rings. The book took place over and entire country and every step was detailed, to the point you felt like you were there. The characters, who were all both funny and flawed in some way (except Paladin), were fantastic, and easy to identify with.

My only advice, other than to tell you to buy the book –because it is worth it— is to read the dictionary at the back of the book. In it, it details the characters, explains the different types of people and places. I didn’t realize it was there until about half-way through the book. So when I saw O’rant or Emerlindian, I just had to figure it out.

This book is for all ages and sexes. I can’t think of anyone who wouldn’t enjoy reading this book, and the lessons that are taught throughout, by Beccaroon, the Sculptor and Paladin, are spot on.

I look forward to the next one in the series.

You can buy this book at Random House.

Read it and enjoy.

royb

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Okay, So What Does the Iran Election Mean Now?

A week ago or so, I read an article on either MSNBC.com, ABCNews.com or CNN.com. I keep up with all three throughout the week, but I don’t remember which one it was on. Anyway, the article was written during the campaign phase of the election in Iran. Remember when everyone was led to believe that Ahmadinejad was on his way out?

The gist of the article was this: Ahmadinejad, who is an ultra-conservative, religious, right-winger, will lose the election because the people of Iran now have the guts to throw him out of office. Why do they now have this so-called power? Because they saw America throw out their ultra-conservative, religious, right-wing dictator, Bush.

I read this article with fascination. This writer –and I sure wish I could recall who it was– was convinced that America had emboldened the people of the world to oust all conservative leaders. Because, obviously, Bush was a horrible leader who was keeping the poor people of America in slavery, and now that he was out, similar leaders would be brought to “justice”. This writer was comparing President Bush and his policies with President Ahmadinejad and his anti-Semitic self.

I could not help but read this article in disbelief. I was amazed that this popular news agency would let such obvious socialist drivel on their website, much less, publish it as an article.

So my question now is this: Since Ahmadinejad won the election by a good margin, even after people said it was rigged, what does that say about the people of Iran? And more importantly, what does that say about the people of America?

And now, what does the writer of this article do as an encore? Since his stance is obvious and his opinions are clearly misguided, he will most likely always have a job at either one of these news agencies because, like him, their stance is obvious and their opinions are clearly misguided.

Now, you may ask why I read these three websites every week if I don’t put any stock in their opinions? Zig Ziglar once said that he reads the Bible and the newspaper every day, so he can see what both sides are doing. I read MSNBC, ABCNews, CNN and FoxNews every week for the same reason. I want to see what the idiots are up to and how they are spinning the world we live in.

royb

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Book Reviews: The Disappearance of God, Eyes Wide Open and Sir Dalton and the Shadow Heart

clip_image001The Disappearance of God

I’ll have to admit that I am a reader of trends. I try to keep up with what direction something is “trending”. For instance, the NBA is trending upward. After Michael Jordan re-retired, the NBA took a tremendous hit and the the ratings began to plummet. But, recently it has been gaining momentum and it is trending upward.

What does that have to do with a book review? Everything. The Disappearance of God, by Dr. Albert Mohler, is a teaching on trends, and where the church in America is headed if we aren’t careful. He goes into detail on such topics as, the emergent church movement, why don’t preachers preach about hell anymore, what happened to church discipline, is sin still sin, and are churches pandering to the their members in order to survive. (Plus more)

I enjoyed this book very much. Dr. Mohler is a brilliant theologian and an excellent writer, and it shows. The book is deep, I won’t lie to you. Have a thesaurus and a dictionary near by, unless you are much smarter than me –which isn’t hard, to be honest.

I’ve noticed something in my short 36 years here on earth. We, as Americans, can learn a lot about our future just by watching Europe. Europe was once this great beacon of Christian principles and morals but than it began to tank, and look at it now. To be a true Christian in Europe, you are in the minority, not the majority. If the trend is accurate, and if we aren’t careful, America will follow this pattern.

I recommend this book to anyone who believes that America is headed for trouble, if churches don’t stay true to the word of God.

You can purchase this book here, at Random House.

clip_image001[4]Eyes Wide Open

As believers, we’ve all struggled somewhere, sometime with our identity. I mean come on, who hasn’t wondered whether or not God can truly love them after all of the junk they’ve done? Maybe you, like many, have looked in the mirror of your soul and been worried that maybe, just maybe, you were beyond God’s grace. If so, than this book is definitely for you. From page one, it hit me right between the eyes that God loved me before I ever even acknowledged Him, and He will never, ever leave me nor forsake me.

Summary

I had it all backwards. The main thing was not my love for God, but his love for me. And from that love I respond to God as one deeply flawed, yet loved. I’m not looking to prove my worth. I’m not searching for acceptance. I’m living out of the worth God already declares I have. I’m embracing his view of me and in the process discovering the person he created me to be.

In Eyes Wide Open, Jud Wilhite invites you to discover the real you. Not the you who pretends to be perfect to satisfy everyone’s expectations. Not the you who always feels guilty before God. Not the you who secretly feels God forgives everyone else but only tolerates you. Not the you who looks in the mirror and sees a failure. The real you, loved and forgiven by God, living out of your identity in Christ.

A travel guide through real spirituality from one incomplete person to another, Eyes Wide Open is a book of stories about following God in the messes of life, about broken pasts and our lifelong need for grace. It is a book about seeing ourselves and God with new eyes–eyes wide open to a God of love.

You can purchase the book here, at Random House.

royb

clip_image001[6]Sir Dalton and the Shadow Heart by Chuck Black

Sir Dalton, a knight in training, seems to have everything going for him. Young, well-liked, and a natural leader, he has earned the respect and admiration of his fellow knights, and especially the beautiful Lady Brynn.

But something is amiss at the training camp. Their new trainer is popular but lacks the passion to inspire them to true service to the King and the Prince. Besides this, the knights are too busy enjoying a season of good times to be concerned with a disturbing report that many of their fellow Knights have mysteriously vanished.

When Sir Dalton is sent on a mission, he encounters strange attacks, especially when he is alone. As his commitment wanes, the attacks grow in intensity until he is captured by Lord Drox, a massive Shadow Warrior. Bruised and beaten, Dalton refuses to submit to evil and initiates a daring escape with only one of two outcomes–life or death. But what will become of the hundreds of knights he’ll leave behind? In a kingdom of peril, Dalton thinks he is on his own, but two faithful friends have not abandoned him, and neither has a strange old hermit who seems to know much about the Prince. But can Dalton face the evil Shadow Warrior again and survive?

You can purchase the book here, at Random House.

royb

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My Heart is Broken

There are some things that I hear that affect me deep down inside. This is one of them.

Written by Gary Lamb of Revolution Church in Georgia, this letter is from a man broken by his own sin. I’ve read it a couple of times. And each time, it tears me up. Keep this guy, his wife and kids and ALL “church” leaders in your prayers.

Read the letter here.

royb

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My Hispanic Brothers are Awesome

For the past couple of months I’ve had the privilege of worshiping with a Hispanic ministry, Victory Pointe.  Led by Pastor Manuel Flores, they meet Fridays and Sunday nights at 7 PM. I’ve gotten to know the pastor and praise team pretty well and have been asked to play drums with them. So far I’ve only played a couple of times, but it has been a fun couple of times.

I never really realized just how different the Hispanic culture was musically. The rhythm is so much different, but in a good way. Arturo, the worship leader, has been gracious in working with me and at least one song during the service will be a Spanish version of an American song and I can relax a little bit, but the rest of them I am learning. But, I’ll have to admit, I’m getting better.

The atmosphere is what I’ve come to enjoy. Their laid back, I’m-just-happy-to-be-here, attitude is refreshing, and I look forward to spending time with them and learning from them. The only draw back so far is the language barrier. I am not by any stretch of the imagination, fluent in Spanish. Heck, I can barely speak English good. But, I am learning the language as I go and am getting considerably better at understanding it. When it comes to playing in a group, body language goes along way, and is the same in any language. I am slowly being able to understand more and more Spanish and can start to follow the vocal directions better.

I think there is a drummer who is Hispanic that they are getting ready to give the reigns to, and that is awesome. I’ve heard him play and he is good. If and when that happens, they’ve asked me to play guitar. Honestly, I can’t wait. Playing the guitar with these guys would be exciting and humbling as well. I just want to help any way I can.

As for listening to the sermons, I’m getting better. I can pick out enough words that I understand the gist of the message. I have to listen very carefully for the Bible verses because he says them so fast, I can’t follow. I have to write them down and look them up as I can. But, I do have a translator on my Blackberry. So, if I hear a word or phrase that I don’t know the meaning of, I can enter it –assuming I spell it right— and figure out what it means. I get looks sometimes from people because I’m sure they think I’m texting during the sermon, but that’s life I guess.

God has blessed me with an incredible opportunity to get know a group of people that many here in Columbia, can’t. I don’t take that opportunity lightly and treasure the time I have with a wonderful group of fellow brothers and sisters in Christ.

Pray for Victory Point (Punta Victoria), that the people in the community will embrace them, that CWOC will continue to be a strong resource for them, and that God will use them to minister to a huge, vastly unreached, people group here in the Midlands of South Carolina.

royb

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Cindy Woodsmall: ABC Nightline

Amish Love

What’s all the hubbub about Amish fiction? Major media outlets like Time and ABC Nightline are covering it, and authors like Cindy Woodsmall are making the New York Times bestseller list regularly. What makes these books so interesting?

Check out the recent ABC Nightline piece here about Cindy and her titles When the Heart Cries, When the Morning Comes, and When the Soul Mends. It’s an intriguing look at Amish culture and the time Cindy has spent with Amish friends.

And don’t forget that Cindy’s new book The Hope of Refuge hits store shelves August 11, and is available for preorder now

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